When Akpene walked
as a flower girl in front of a to-be couple over twenty years ago, she had no
idea the little page boy beside him would one day become her husband. After
many years of living their separate lives, and blindly dating others, Akpene
and Yaw are finally getting married on 24.09.2016.
It will be a wonderful
moment in the presence of God. I call it ‘”September to remember!” As Akpene’s
sister and friend, I feel obligated to blog about this beautiful handiwork of
God; although it’s been a while I did blogged. So how did it all happen? They
became friends, sharing their moments of sadness and joy together. Family
members and friends started speculating but they will hastily and assuredly
declare their ‘just-friends’ status. And oh YES! They were just friends. Akpene
had been serving in a non-profit organization that minister to children in
deprived communities for many years and also serves in her local church as a
Sunday school teacher. Akpene's dedicated service to deprived children must have attracted
Yaw to be part of the fore mentioned group. Little did they know that it was
God’s divine way of drawing them closer. Let me secretly ask Yaw how he popped
the question. They probably will be surprised seeing this blog but hey guys!
When you walk with writers, this is how we say CONGRATULATIONS!
I
KNOW YOU AND AKPENE WERE JUST FRIENDS, TELL ME WHAT MADE YOU FINALLY DECIDE TO
DATE
The truth is that we did not decide to date.
We were very close friends and everyone around us (friends and family) thought
we were dating although we were not. We were so close that we always had the
notion that we cannot date each other with the fear that it will ruin our
friendship if something should go wrong. One day, after I personally encountered
another speculative statements by some friends, I later said to her “Why don’t
we try dating?” Like always, she thought it will not work. Later, she also got
that same comments from different people. What awoken her was when a friend in
the non-profit group we both serve kept having conversations with her about the
prospect of us dating; looking at the wonderful friendship we have. She came to
tell me about the encounter and so I brought the question back again and
amazingly, we both decided to give it a try and made certain rules. That was
how it all started.
The early months was just platonic till the
feeling changed into something else. When I realized it was leading to
something more serious, I took her out. We had a matured conversation on our
young romantic relationship and we both became convinced and agreed this should
be more than what we were having. I proposed to her that night! As I think
through this, it has taught me a great lesson in life. “Do not think something
is not possible until you actually do it or give it a try”
And yes, Yaw is right! If you have spent
years pushing some good friends away or seeing them as a brother or sister who
is impossible to date, I hope you find this lesson helpful. After all, many
relationship/marriage expects have noted that marrying your friend is the best
decision one can ever make since you know them inside out and may not have many
surprises during marriage.
MY MESSAGE TO AKPENE
AND YAW
God makes all things beautiful in His time. I've watched
you two 'transitioned' from best of friends to best lovers. From the moment I started hearing Akpene say
“My Significant other”, I knew this was meant to be and I must admit, I'm so
proud of you both and your journey. Truly, God is Faithful! As you tie the knot
on 24-09-16, it is my prayer that the Almighty God continue to bless and lead
you. Always make God the centre of your marriage. There will be seasons of
prosperity and seasons of challenges. Overcoming them is what makes love
beautiful, Akpene, my sister, please submit to your
husband as to the Lord so you can become a good example for me and ladies in our group to emulate. Feed him
always, be his peace and don't "deprive him of sex" You will soon have
the license to do it anytime and any day. Lol. To Yaw, my able
Project Director, love your wife, just as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:
25-29). I will want to see you continue to cherish her and make her your
priority as you always do now and please lead her to Jesus and heaven
eventually. I thank God for how far He has brought you. I can’t wait for your wedding!
MESSAGE
TO READERS
Finally to all my readers, I leave you here till I come back with Part
II of this article where you will hear from Akpene’s side of the story, who
will by the time be the newest bride in town. When that day comes, be careful not
to call her by the father’s surname again because Yaw will give her a new name.
Lovely day to you all!
Eish my able leader, you know how to do it
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