How to Overcome Lesbianism

Overcoming Lesbianism

Lesbianism is an act which is on the increase in our community and among our young ladies. Most people think it is only America that has embraced this act but believe you me, there are people all over the world even in developing countries who are secretly practicing this act. Everyone has their own theory of judgment on the issue but no one actually pay attention to practical solutions that can help girls, ladies and women come out from this addiction. Although some who practice this act may feel confident about it, Per my own interview with a number of them, almost every woman or lady who practice lesbianism; either with a partner or with themselves feel ashamed and loses some form of self-worth in their own eyes after the act. Most Lesbians trace the beginning of it all to either; low self esteem, past rejection by love ones or peer influence. The most difficult thing for those going through Lesbianism  is to talk to someone about it because the first reaction from you will be to judge them, however, this epidemic is spreading quite fast and the body of Christ cannot sit down for the devil to steal many women to hell through this act. If you are reading this article and have been battling with Lesbianism or masturbation, I want you to know that it is not normal for you to go through weekly or monthly addiction of such act; and because it is not normal you need to seek the Lord for forgiveness and deliverance. #You are very special in God’s eyes and He is just waiting for you to come to Him.

I decided to write on this topic after I received a message from a young lady two months ago that said; ‘Baaba, I need your help please. I like sleeping with girls and I have been doing this since I was 17years. After receiving this message, I was very proud of her bold step to talk to someone about her situation. However after a week of discussing the details of her over six years’ experience in Lesbianism; I was quite shocked. Notwithstanding, over the past weeks, we went through different activities that  has helped her to slowly but steadily experienced significant changes in her life. I have therefore decided to share with you some of the ways you can overcome this act if you are a, girl, lady or woman going through these addictions in secret to overcome your sexual weaknesses and trust God for forgiveness and deliverance. 

                       THE WAY OUT

1.    Talk to someone about it

While it is difficult these days to trust friends, family and even some pastors with such a secret, there are still people who will be willing to listen to all that you’ve been going through without judging you. Look for someone you can trust; most importantly, a prayerful person who loves to live by the word of God through the example of his/her own life; preferably a man. I know of a lady, who visited a prophetess with this issue, it was a prayer camp so the prophetess asked the lady to stay overnight to receive counsel and directions. By the time the lady left the next day, the prophetess had slept with her. Lesbianism is a spirit so if you do not look for a prayerful and someone who lives by the word, they may end up been influenced by the spirit of lust which lives and manifest around you.

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    .Go through deliverance

As I earlier pointed out, Lesbianism is influenced by a spirit. We pick this spirit from various sources. Some when they were in boarding school, others through a movie or pornographic movies and images on the internet, some were also introduced by friends and peers. Whichever way you got it, you can still be delivered through the power in the blood of Jesus. After listening to the experiences of the lady almost every day for a week, amidst preaching to her and encouraging her about how much God still loves her, I realized that she always had something new I hadn’t heard and she was still carrying the load of what she has done in the past. I then took her to my church where my pastor took her through deliverance by confessing that she has accepted Jesus and denounced any association with the spirit of lesbianism. After the deliverance, she became free and was no longer talking extensively about all that she had done in the past. She was now declaring her assurance in the fact that Jesus had saved her.

3.    Stay away from your Lesbian friends and make new friends

Staying away from your lesbian friends is one of the most important and difficult decisions you will have to make towards your quest to overcome this act. There are some who are beaten, laughed at or even offered huge sum of money to lure them into returning back to their old ways. I will encourage you to take bold and radical steps if the need be. Such steps could be changing your location, phone number, and opting out from any social gathering you use to go together. I know of someone who had to wake up at dawn, pack few things and move away from the house she was sharing with her lesbian partner. In the case of my friend, she stopped picking the calls of all her lesbian friends and rather spent much time seeking information from the word of God and spending time with her family. She was sometimes humiliated in town by the older women in her lesbian circle who use to take care of her financially. Worst of it is when two of the girls secretly broke into her house once when no one was around and abused her sexually with their fingers and sticks. It will be good if you find a body of Christ and become active in all their services, join a department, make new friends and steadily grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.

4.  Share your testimony

Revelation 12:11a says ‘and they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony. Deep down the heart, everyone living in sin craves for deliverance. Those who are now learning the act and those who are already in it will receive the seed of change through your testimony even though they might not tell you. You need to let your lesbian friends know why you are no longer interested in living that life. If you just run away from them without sharing your testimony, they will only assume you have found a new partner. So tell them of your deliverance and willingness to now live a life that pleases God. If you can, share with the body of Christ what you’ve been through and how God is restoring you. You never know whom your testimony will save.

I am trusting that this article has been beneficial in helping you with relevant solutions based on the word of God to awaken you from every enslavement by the enemy through lesbianism. Remember that God  loves you and have wonderful plans for your life; and once you give your life to Him, he will clean, restore and sanctify you for every good work. His word says in 2 Chro 7:14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU

HELPFUL SCRIPTURES

Mark 2:17

When Jesus heard it, He said unto them, “They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”

Mathew 11:28-30 

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Romans 8:1

There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus

Leviticus 18:22

²² Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.

Romans 1:26-28

 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. 

1 Corinthians 6-9

Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

Revelation 21:8